Tuesday, December 4, 2012

** Homeless **

     Hey everyone, hope everyone is having a wonderful day today. My topic is about giving to the homeless.
     Every year I feel sad to know that the homeless have to stay out in the cold every night, but in the winter time is the worse, It seem like people don't really think about what it would be like to be in their situation. I'm not saying anything bad or anything but I feel like the people who have lost their homes from tragic storms are getting the attention that the homeless should be getting. Don't get me wrong it is awful for the people who have lost their homes an their jobs I do pray for them, but they are still getting help. The homeless though, they have to deal with it everyday of their lives and they don't get the respect they deserve. People who donate money to help the wealthy, middle an lower class people should also think about helping the homeless giving them clothes, shoes, food, and fresh water. Rather than driving past them during the cold an wet days, stop an give a helping hand like you would do people who have have just  lost their homes..Honestly what is the difference between them two? Nothing, the people who are homeless just need help to get on their feet again and with giving up some stuff you don't really need anymore could really help them out.
     List of things that could help would be: Clothes- Coats, under clothing, pants shirts/ sweaters,socks, scarves, hats, gloves, shoes, ear muffs.. Hygiene Products- Shampoo, tooth paste, deodorant, tooth brush, razors, rags, soap, TP. Cleansing pad..Home Supplies- Blankets, pillows, sleeping bags, Plastic plates/cups/bowls/wear, towels etc.
     So if you ever see someone who is homeless please be kind an give a helping hand. You wouldn't ever understand how much it would make them feel to know that someone still cares..
 Thanks Everyone I Hope Everyone has a Wonderful & Safe Christmas.
                                                              God Bless!

Friday, November 30, 2012

* Not A Good Day *

     I know this is weird to write about but today is the day my Long Tale lizard Izzy past away. She was our family cause we took care of her like a normal pet and it was sad to see her just laying there. We had her for almost a year and her boyfriend Rango was all alone. I think he was upset to know he was by himself so we went to the pet store an bought two different lizards so he didn't have to be alone anymore. I know we will all miss her and feel bad for losing her..RIP
     Hope everyone has a good night. :)

Saturday, November 24, 2012

* Old Shows/ Games and Now *

     Hey everyone! Today's topic is about our Old an New Times...very random but I thought it would be a good topic haha.
     For about a week I have been talking to my son about all the games and shows his mommy and daddy grew up on like the games Mario Brothers, Sonic, Donkey Kong; and the shows like Cat in the Hat, Scooby Doo, Catdog, Pinky and the Brain stuff like that. So far he's been really getting into Sonic and Mario Games.. Although he's was born in the 2000's, hes really into the 90's cartoons an games I think its awesome to know that my kid is into our old shows. We have Netflix and hes always watching Barney, Blues Clues, Rugrats, Sesame Street etc, when its not on TV. Shows that wasn't on when I was younger now are Sid the Science Kid, Dinosaur Train, Danial Tigers Neighborhood an more. These shows he loves to watch everyday, an they're learning shows that's what I love about newer shows cause they  teach our kids more now then they did when I was younger. We used our imagination  nothing really educational but like sesame street  but their using educational shows to teach our kids something everyday. At four years old I wouldn't know the stuff my son does today.. I think it is wonderful to have these shows for our kids. Although doctors say its not good for children to watch TV all the time; me an my son every morning from 9 till 1 watch cartoons, its like school for him. He learns, interacts w/ it an tells me about it after watching it. Not only that once the shows are off we go on PBSKIDS.ORG to play the games. So for him to watch cartoons and play the games like he does and to be as smart as he is, I think their isn't nothing wrong w/ it as long as it's educational. 
     Anyways...Although I'm not a doctor but this is what I would say  for the people who have a hard time teaching their kids at a young age. Sit down w/ them watch the educational shows on Pbskids an talk to them about what they just watched and question them on some of the stuff they saw like Example: So how can  people catch germs? Answer: From not washing their hands. For them it feels like their just watching tv but really they are learning what they see an hear.
     So that's all for tonight I hope everyone has a wonderful night
                                             Thanks :)

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

** Black Ops II Is Here**

     Hey ya''ll, how is everyone tonight? I'm doing pretty good. Today's topic is gonna be pretty short but its on Black Ops II (BO2) been wait on this game since July an it is finally here!
     So as you know we have been waiting for this game since July an today was the first day it got here, as soon as my husband got home that was the first thing he did was go get the game to start playing it and so far Its pretty good, I played one game before we had dinner to see if I would do good...well you can say I went even haha my score was 11 kills and 11 deaths an 2 assist so I guess that's not to bad since it was my first time playing the new game..what I have seen is that the sound changes on it are way better than before. Before was way to loud I thought, like for the  guns sound, it sounds smoother when you shoot them an the bombs sound like fireworks  with a BOOM! not a POW! haha. With that said good job to the people who made the game better. Also if you haven't got the game yet you can check out the video that my husband will have up on youtube tonight, this video he's making tonight is gonna be him playing and talking about what guns hes using and show how they work. All you gotta do it type in his name  MrKampHard an you will find it. And if you haven't already subscribe to his page its just a one click :) an enjoy! I hope you all have a wonderful and safe day/night.

Friday, October 19, 2012

* * Bullying * *

     Hello everybody, today's topic is about all the bullying. As everyone knows about the girl Amanda Todd top news right now. If not I'll sum it up for ya.. To start off she posted a video Sept. 7th about what was going on. .She was 15 yrs.of age, was bullied because of a picture that was posted up on the internet. Then everyone saw it an looked at her like she was a slut or something.. She moved to different places an different schools but the news got around and people were still picking on her. It got so bad that she drink bleach to kill herself, but then she was rushed to the hospital to get it flushed out. After she got home all over her facebook she seen posts saying that maybe she drink the wrong bleach so she should buy her a different type an maybe it will killer this time and all these other mean things. Later on she tried to kill herself again this time she did, she died just a few days.
     The first thing I have to say about this is... at this day in age at fifteen lots of girls do dumb things like take pictures of them self or have sex, all for that one boy she really likes a lot an makes her feel special. Second thing what I cant believe is how people can say something to hurt someone so badly that they want to kill them self and for the bully to know that an is like I hope you see this an kill your self,  how can you really say something like that I mean your pretty much killing them without touching them.. Remember the saying "Sticks and Stones will Break my Bones but Words can Never hurt Me". Well as we all know, Words DO Hurt!! It hurts so much that people commit suicide and now other people have to suffer for what the bullies have done to cause it to happen. You can change from a bully to someone who can help others with their problems. Why would you want to be the one who causes the problem, everyone has their own problems at home nobody needs to bring it to the schools and pick on other kids with it. No one is perfect, so everyone needs to stop judging, bullying, and hurting people to the point they want to die.
     When I hear things like this, it makes me sad to know their are children suffering because of others picking on them. Nobody should have to feel like killing them self to get out of something especially teens from being bullied.. If you are being bullied or know someone who is please get help for you or for them,  be there for each other and help one another. To know that someone is out there hurting others like this is horrible, so when you see someone being bullied please step in by telling someone an be there for them.
     If your out there reading this an going through this also..I would love to be to talk to you one on one. Ill be there for you if you don't have anyone to talk to about this kinda stuff. Sometimes when talking to someone you don't know really does help, It shows that there are people out there that care about you even if they don't know you so don't ever think nobody cares about you cause you have so many people that do even if you don't see it.
                     Everyone have a Blessed Day!

RIP Amanda Todd you will be missed an loved.
11/27/96 - 10/10/12

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

*MW3 Camping*

Hey y'all how is everyone? Topic for today is MW3.." Modern WarFare 3"
     I started playing this game for awhile now it is so fun, before I didn't like it cause I wasn't no good but now I'm not to bad haha. The only thing I really hate about it is all the camping. I don't understand why you would wanna play an camp the whole time, that's no fun I don't think. Its better to run around an kill people rather than just sitting there till someone walks past you.
     Can someone tell me what is so fun about camping? When I first started I camped only because I really didn't know how to play but then once I got used to it, camping was out I had so much fun running around an getting people that way. My husband plays all the time also; he got me started and now he has his own channel on youtube called MrKampHard. He does trolling an some seriousness. But when we play it mostly not serious its just for fun. Mainly the reason we just goof around on this game is because of all the camping. You honestly cant have fun playing that way so that's why he trolls.
      I know a lot of people are excited for BO2 "Black Ops 2"comes out, I myself cant wait =D  I just hope people wont be camping like they have been in MW3 cause its just sickly ridiculous. Anyways If you all are into this game check out the youtube videos from MrKampHard If your into it make sure you LIKE & SUBSCRIBE thanks y'all. By the way my husband does not camp its just sarcastic for the people who do camp. If you have played with him, maybe you have or could be in his videos too.
     That's all for now I hope everyone has a awesome night!!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

MeetMe.Com??

     Today's Post is about the website Meetme.com. I know a lot of people go there just to have fun or to find someone, but  I made me one of them things to find me some new friends close by to where I live; just curious on why people don't think of that site at for making friends, because it is for that also.
     I have all kinds of guys and girls who want to add me to their friends an then try to get me to share pix or kik. Whats really annoying about the whole thing is you have a "About Me" spot to share about you, but whats the reason for it if no one looks at it? I say perfectly that I am MARRIED, ONLY FOR FRIENDS & NOTHING MORE! But some people don't get the message an still try to flirt or ask me for my number..My thing is, why does this site make people think its only for people that are trying to get with others as in relationship or sex... I mean its to find friends too don't people realize that?
     I have people not just guys but girls to that say hey sexy, beautiful, gorgeous or  guys will say what size is your chest? what you got on? Do people really talk that way when you meet someone they don't know? No they don't so I mean have some respect for them an your self, it gets on my nerves just to talk to people sometimes because I always have to tell them I'm not here for a relationship just read my info." About Me". before talking to me or before adding me. Someone needs to make a site called "Making Friends" or something just so people know that its not about sex and looking, but to have fun an find some friends.
     Anyways that it for this post, have a great night everybody!! =D

Friday, August 31, 2012

~The Show Teen MoM~

     So as some people know, the first Teen Mom Show is over :( I really enjoyed watching it. Its sad to see them go, but of course we all knew it was going to end sooner or later. They ready do touch peoples lives an show how hard being a parent can be.
      I am very proud of them all and hope the best; especially for Amber.  She has had the most problems during this show, I mean most of it was her fault in my opinion because she shouldn't be hitting on anyone, an the medicine she was taking shouldn't have been abused, not only all of that, but she should have really thought about her daughter before doing all that she has done. Farah, to me started off with an attitude problem when her mom was trying to help. Yes I think her mom should have let her learn a lot of it on her own because that is the only way to really learn, but she needs to understand she was only trying to help. Now that she has moved out an way from her family I think she does realize how hard it is while going to school an working now. Catelynn is very special an she has a big heart, Im really glad  that she is doing good with everything she has been going through. I hope she keeps up the good work! Macy she is a strong mom, an loves her Bently very much. She does everything for her son even with everything going on in her life with the baby's daddy ( Ryan) just keep strong Macy don't let Ryan get to you.
     So as that has been said, hope y'all have a wonderful day.

Monday, August 20, 2012

Vacation Part II

     I'm back! So vacation was awesome had a blast, it was a long drive though. Once we got to our vacation spot we relaxed since it was dark by the time we got there but the next day we spent all day at the beach. It was so beautiful just seeing the waves and the sky. We walked the boardwalk an took pix, we also road a bike looking  at thing down there instead of walking the whole time. We tried new foods, went to stores looked around an bought some souvenirs.
     My son was so happy to go to the beach an play in the sand. Me an my little man played in the sand an in the waves, he loved it! His daddy an him was also playing in the waves an would jump every time a wave came then it would knock him down haha it was so funny. we found seashells an he decided to give some to his family back home. But we was happy to go back after the week was up, so we could see our family an relax in our own beds. It was a wonderful Birthday Week.

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

!!!* My First Vacation *!!!

     Hey everyone, just a short blog for today, then when I get back from vacation I'll post what I did on my first vacation. I do know one thing though my birthday is coming up in 6 days yay! The big 21 cant wait, how great is it to celebrate w/ your family on the beach for the first time.. I have been waiting for this day for months an its finally here.
     If anyone would like to share their first vacation trip please do. Id love to hear the things you've done :)) 
Anyways everyone have a wonderful day. And when I get back home Ill post part 2 of this. lol

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

* Strange Addictions *

New topic about addictions
     I was curious about what people were addicted to an there are some crazy things out there. So many things to be addicted to an not really even knowing it..
     For me it would be dying my hair. I love to dye my hair, not crazy colors but in one month I'll dye it at least 3 times just to get the blonde that I want. Bleach Blonde that is. I am naturally Burnett an when I want to dye it bleach blonde Ill dye it 3 times in a month in a half to get it where I want it. Once my roots start to show I let them grow out about 2inchs then dye it again, that way I feel like my hair wont fall out.When it gets to about 2 months I start  to urge do it again. Once I do dye my hair I feel so much better until the next time. lol
     Other peoples addictions though that I saw was- People who smell themselves or things like their fingers, underarms, breath, hair, shoes, feet, other parts of their body, clothes, silverware, smell the food before they eat etc.
Some people are addicted to feeling like a baby as a grown person, maybe never really had a childhood.. Being hoarders w/ animals or clothes etc. Maybe they lost something that meant something to them.. Tanning, exercising to make them feel special an be noticed, gambling maybe they feel lucky, shopping makes you feel good, sex.?. the list can go on an on, but what makes us addicted to what we do? I just wonder all the time why we do it. I know its not healthy I know people wonder why an some look at us like were crazy. I listed somethings that I thought why people did it but I honestly have no clue if thats the reason..
     I know everyone has some kind of addiction an some may not know it unless you point it out to them. Just think about it an see if you can figure it out. Watch every detail in what you do, an ask your self why? Its very interesting to see how our mind an body works.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Favorite Songs

     This is random but I thought I would right about some of my favorite songs, an how they mean something to me or someone who has reminded me of this song.
Mariah Carey- Hero.
     I myself have been through many hard times. With my family, friends, an wrong boyfriends.
I've been put down an shut down, to the point I have felt like my life cant go on any longer. But the right person came into my life an changed that. He picked me up from nothing to something. Now I'm who I wanna be, hes my hero. To help someone that is going through what I have been through I'm their hero because I can help him/her to be a better person or change their negativity to a positive attitude.
Mariah Carey- Bye Bye.
     I know this isn't just me who has lost someone they loved. This song really does touch me a lot cause you never really think about all the stuff that you will be missing when their gone. All the laughter, hugs an talks that you've had. So never say bye because you will see them again in time.
Mariah Carey- Shake It Off.
     Someone that has put her all in relationships, an the guys treat her like shes nothing. She does everything for her men to keep them happy but what they do for her is make her miserable. I always have to tell her to move on an you'll find someone who loves you the same, but you got to choose someone who you wouldn't normally go for cause you already know how they are. Be strong, get over him. He may want you back but you gotta shake it off an keep going forward.
3 Doors Down- Landing in London.
     This song, when I had my son I would play it every night for him cause thats the only song that he would go to sleep too. Any other one he would stay wide awake.
Plan White Ts- Hey there Delilah.
     This song was dedicated to me by my boyfriend, now husband. ever since we first got together he always told me we would make it through all the hard parts and be happy one day. He was right, everything so far that I planned as a little girl has came true. What someone can really do to make you happy :)
Nelly- Just A Dream.
     I just like it cause its a really good song.
                    
This is all I'll put on here, but I do have more lol  It was just a random thing to right about :))





Friday, May 4, 2012

** LOVE **

     Love, love is something strong. Someone who to die for, to take risks for, someone that you'd do anything for. Someone to help when you see them struggle. Love is something you've never felt with someone else before in the passed..Yes you can love more than once but the first true love is special. You can never forget that person even when you have moved on, you will always have them in your heart an that cant never die. Just know that the special  person you find that next time and have them same feelings for, cares about you as much as that first one. So show them how much they mean to you.
     Some people say true love don't last, well that's not true. It doesn't matter if your not with them now or ever will be again but in your heart you know you still love him or her; and that will always be there. Love is blind an controls a lot about who you are an what you become. Lots of people who have been on drugs their whole life become clean for that one person, just because they know that  they are loved by someone that they truly love.
     People who truly love you is someone who cares what you are doing, if your hurting your body in some way, helps you get through whatever is wrong, or gets you out of the trouble you was in. Maybe hanging out with the wrong people/crowd or even a bad neighborhood that could lead you in to trouble in the long run.
     When you know that your truly in love don't run from it, hold on tight because its a good thing an hard to find. Just to know their is someone out there for you! Don't search for it let it just come your way. Maybe you meet them at school, on a bus, plane, at a wedding, or even at a park. You talk tons of people every year an never really wonder if you'll see them again, but what if that one time talking to them would changed everything...maybe you bump into them that next weekend at a grocery store, or at the mall.. even if that's not your type of person you normally date at least you met a friend that one day could be your true love. Don't ever judge a book by its cover cause its not always right. You might be surprised at what you find :)

Monday, April 23, 2012

Real Friends or Fake?

     Today topic is about real friend, as people say True Friends an the Fake ones.
     I have had this friend for years an years, since diaper days. We've always been there for each other in the passed an I thought even till this day. But I realized I was the one who was a true friend not her. Something big happen this Saturday an I thought she could an would be there for me, but instead she took the other side an left me hanging in the dust.
     Real friend, is someone you can tell secrets to an know that it wont go nowhere. Someone you can trust an go to for advice when there's no one to turn to. I just wonder how someone like that can change in seconds. It hurts to know that your best friend kinda like sisters, could hurt you so much. When you feel like you have a friend that you can trust don't ever think they cant change an ruin your life in minutes because I am going through this right now. All you can do is keep your head high an stay strong and let god help.
     Fake friends, Someone who seems to be your friend, say they wont tell secrets an then turns around an does it when your gone. When you hear someone talk about you an find out it was you "Friend" and they lie to you, someone who blames you for the trouble, when something goes wrong an they their you proof to help you but hides from it all...they are not friends.
     Always keep your eyes open an make sure this don't happen to you. I mean you really never know who your real friends are until something happens maybe it will take years an years but one day your gonna know.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

* Child Abuse/Neglect *

My topic today is child abuse.
     I have seen as a young child people who has been abused an neglected when they were younger. I have seen them beat, dragged, hit, pinched, and starved. I just wonder one thing, How could they do that to their own child?
     As I was younger, a mother that I saw outside of doors was someone I looked at like a good mother, someone I liked to be around, but the days I would stay the night w/ her children is when I seen it all. That was not a mother, that was a monster. I felt sorry for my friends because I knew they shouldn't have been treated that way. No family is perfect, but that was no family that was an act on the outside an scared to be inside. On the inside of it all was a person who was mad. She would get made if the house was not clean right, if the food wasn't cooked in time, if the food was cold, if they didn't listen the first time, or if the kids would fight with each other.
     The first night I stayed the night we had to go to bed at 7:00pm. an the oldest at 11:00, she was not much older. the next day we got up an had to clean the house, do the dishes, vacuum, feed the baby, make the mom breakfast while she just sat there waiting for a mistake.  If we would play to loud she would make her kids come out of the bed rooms an make me stay, while they got hit. A year later, we was all playing an then got to rough with one of the other kids an they told on us so they got smacked in the face an pinched on the arms. Then she made us all come down stairs an told us to get on the couch an watch TV but if we got off the couch she would come in an  yell who ever was off of it "But Me". One day one of then talked back to her an she grabbed them by the hair an dragged them to her bedroom an then would beat them then say "STOP CRYING IF I HEAR YOU CRY I WILL HIT YOU EVEN HARDER!" An then would always threatening them to pack their clothes cause she was gonna drop them off somewhere an leave them there. To me I was terrified, they would look at me with tears in there eyes w/ shame. It was sad cause they were my best friends an I just didn't want them to have to go through this an I didn't know what to do at this time.
     Later on they moved away an I didn't see them for like 3 years. Once they came back things were a little different, but not to different. The oldest one became the one who was aloud to tell them what to do an hit them just like there mom did if they didn't listen. At that time she was 16. The next oldest to youngest was 13, 12, 10 an 4. The would still get hit a lot but not for every little thing. The mom got married an never was around her kids. When she was she would  pretty much would find something to yell at them for an then have the step dad hit them. He was just like her, it was like they love to see pain in them kids. Loved the power to make them cry. But once they got older things changed completely, they all moved away. the oldest got with her boyfriend that was much much older then her, the other two girls moved in to their dads place, the one son stayed with his grandparents an the baby that was like 6 was still with his mom an step dad.
     I still talk to them now an see how they all came out. They acted like normal teens, do the things an have fun with friends. Its like nothing ever happen Yes, they don't talk to their mom anymore because she don't have nothing to do with them, but maybe its for the better. I feel like if  you know someone who does this, then speak out because it could get even worse if not. An so for the parents. It would teach them how to be parents an have more patience. If they feel that much anger then they need to take classes for that or walk away until they're cooled off.. No child should be scared of their mom or dad, that should be the number one person to go to if your scared. For all you people who do such things to your children, you do not deserve to have them! I would give everything for my child hes my would an I could never see me do anything to harm him that way. Love your children an be proud you have them no matter if you are having a bad day. And show them you care!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

* Weight *

     The most big thing about America is peoples weight. I myself is a thick girl. Have I always been this way? No. But now that I am I see how big girls struggle. I used to be very skinny an thought I was fat an then became anorexic People told me I was skinny an I just didn't believe them.Now I wish I did. After having my son, I found out I had a over active thyroid. It's a disease that makes you bigger an harder to lose weight. For the rest of my life I might have to take pills for it to just stay normal. I've been on them for 3 1/2 years an still counting..
     Struggles you have when being over weight is... Clothes not wanting to fit. I don't like shopping anymore because I stress out an just break down an sometimes cry. Just seeing everything that used to fit an now don't. It really is hard to look at, not only that but if you see a cute pair of pants that have every size but yours.. kinda depressing. Food, I love food always have but now its just harder to choose the right stuff to eat. And the guys who stare an look at you like your nobody, an make fun of you when you walk by. I myself have never had that done that I know of but I have seen it done. An when guys look at pictures of plus size models an state how big they are an shouldn't do things like that cause they're so fat. First off that's rude, an if they don't like it, why are they looking at it in the first place. People shouldn't judge.
     Some people say they are okay with being thick, but are they really? I used to wonder why people made fun of themselves being big.. now I think I know why cause I now am one of them people. I do it because I don't want others doing it. So if I feel like someone is staring, or just look at what I have on a, I would be like "Yeah I'm not wearing this again I look like a moo cow lol." But really I'm like I like this, an think I look good in it, but do I really?
     Being big to me is not really that beautiful underneath. If you know how to wear your clothes to make u look slim an not let it hang out then to me your gonna look good. But its hard to make yourself something that your not. I have been eating healthy an less portions when I eat an exercise. I want to get smaller an lose some weight, its hard but I'm really wanting to so I'll feel better about myself
     If you really want to do something, just put your mind to it an achieve your goal.

Friday, March 16, 2012

* Weight *

       Next week we will talk about Over Weight.
Seems to be a big topic right now in the world, so lets talk.

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Relationships Good & Bad

     Every relationship starts off the same. Its great! You get the nervousness, shyness, giggles, smiles, butterflies, an always getting the complements. I just wonder why it don't stay that way...
     Once your in the relationship for a few months you start to see the real person come out, sometimes sooner. We all know that all that nice guy at the beginning don't stay forever. The more we spend time together it just shows us how we really are. We move in with each other an then a few months we start to aggravate each other, wondering where they're going, when they'll be back etc. Us girls love to be with our man almost  seems like 24/7. If your  man wants to go out with their friends, we want to go too. If you want to stay home and watch movies you want your man there with you, an when us girls cook we want  to show that we make good meals for our man.and to make them feel special, we dress up to look good and so you'll complement us like you did in the beginning. The guys are like the girls, they want to know they look good. It makes them feel good just like it does us. Cooking on the grill is their talent. As they say " MEN DO THE GRILLING AN WOMEN IN THE KITCHEN." Makes them feel in charge, to hear how good them did; Just like us girls.
      Let talk about the Good things about our relationship..
 We love the beginning for sure, that's when we feel amazing an things are great. We have an amazing boyfriend that turns into fiance, into husband who does an says all the right things, Its like we couldn't ask for nothing better. When the man buys you dinner, flowers, presents, everything you want,  he's the man you want right? Not quite  true, Yes we love all of that and want a man like that, but real woman don't really worry about that stuff just for her man to show that he loves her an shes the only one, all eyes on her, treats her like there's no other girl for him, says he loves her all the time, kisses her, hugs her, and makes her feel good. Guys want that to just don't show it like we do. So make sure you show then how u would want to be felt.
     Bad things in are relationship...
Everyone argues an fights w/ each other, not everything is perfect. Some fights are over dumb things that are so little that shouldn't really be arguing about, but some peoples relationships change for the worst. It starts off the same as everyone else, the best thing in the world. You fall in love an nothing could change it, but then again you find out who they are an how they changed. Some become controlling or become controlled. Physical abuse is something you want to leave asap. Once it starts it only gets worse. The arguing get worse, then that can lead to pushing, slapping, spitting, punching, kicking, pulling hair, dragging, throwing, choking, locking people in rooms an even more, where it can lead to DEATH. Then its to late. I have a question for people who go through this, I hear it all the time I LOVE HIM/HER. How can you love to get beat? That's not love.. love  has no physical pain, love is someone who would never lay their hand on you or allow anyone else to, to keep you safe from danger, an make you feel safe. Someone you can trust to be with, an not be scared! An if you have kids with that person, your kids should never see something like that.That should be your number one reason to leave. Your kids come first before any relationship. No matter if its you baby mamma/daddy. You gotta get away from that before something happens to you or your kids.
      For people who go through this/ has; Please comment so someone can answer my questions and how love can be so blind an painful for others. Who ever wants to just comment  please do so.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

On the 11th

The next blog will on March 11th we will be talking about Relationships. The Good & Bad. Please comment if you would like.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Teen Moms

     Today's topic is about Teen Moms. It seems like the newer generation these days everyone is having kids. What's the deal?
     I myself was a 10th grade teen mom. I struggled a lot with not having a job, still in school, parents, an my baby's daddy was in college with no job. We were still kids an I didn't know what to do. I had to repeat some of my tenth grade classes an also do eleventh grade. I really didn't think I was gonna graduate. But I knew that if I didn't try I wouldn't get nowhere. At 11 months my sons dad joined the Army to get us on our feet. It was hard to know I was having to do this on my own without him. Once I was a senior, I moved out an got a job, but still needed help so I had to get on assistance from the government. That next year and a half my baby's dad came home an we got married. We got off of the government help an moved away. We still are learning about parenting.
     Being a teen mom is hard work. It takes patience,  mind, and power. Going to school and having a baby is very difficult. Not many graduate nor have good jobs, an many get on government assistance. Yes, you do miss out on a lot of stuff like being with your friends all the time, doing stuff you want to do, and buying what you want to buy. Everything now is all about your baby,  priorities are first, wants are last.
     If you need help take it! You don't want to get stressed out to much, its not good on you or your baby. Baby can feel your emotions when your sad, scared, angry, or happy. Always show love to your baby an show them you care. If you feel like you cant handle taking care of your child don't neglect them just see if someone can help you for a little while till you feel like your capable of doing it on your own again.
     Lots of people feel like they can go out to party an do their own thing an leave their child with someone else. My opinion you shouldn't do it so much where it seem  like you don't have a responsibility. Every weekend is way to much, maybe once a month just to have a girls night out. You need to learn your child and be with them; Let them know who you are, because once they get older an know the routine your child may grow up an do the same. Do the things that your mom an dad didn't with you. Make their life be better.
      If you are not a teen mom wait till your older. Have fun while you can, you only live once. So be the kid you are and don't have kids while being one. You see what these teen moms go through everyday, its a struggle. Wait until your married an stabled to be a parent. It would be so much easier on you, because you will know more about everything an have experience with children. All I'm saying is wait to grow up, you don't want to miss out on the best teen years of your life!
 
If you have Been, Going, or Know people that has been  through this, Please share your stories an experiences.
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Saturday, February 25, 2012

Welcome to Where the gossip happens : )

Hello! This site is for Girls who just want to talk about WHATEVER, Problems or Curiosity.  Boys/Guys, Motherhood, Parenting, family, etc. Have opinions, questions or Need help. Whatever you want to talk about I'm sure there are people who are willing to talk with you, or have them same questions. This site is something fun to do, nothing to get mad about, things that you wouldn't talk about w/ the guys. So It would be great to hear from you an join the website. Their will be a new topics randomly,  I would like for you  to choose the topics also. Speak Out!!

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