The most big thing about America is peoples weight. I myself is a thick girl. Have I always been this way? No. But now that I am I see how big girls struggle. I used to be very skinny an thought I was fat an then became anorexic People told me I was skinny an I just didn't believe them.Now I wish I did. After having my son, I found out I had a over active thyroid. It's a disease that makes you bigger an harder to lose weight. For the rest of my life I might have to take pills for it to just stay normal. I've been on them for 3 1/2 years an still counting..
Struggles you have when being over weight is... Clothes not wanting to fit. I don't like shopping anymore because I stress out an just break down an sometimes cry. Just seeing everything that used to fit an now don't. It really is hard to look at, not only that but if you see a cute pair of pants that have every size but yours.. kinda depressing. Food, I love food always have but now its just harder to choose the right stuff to eat. And the guys who stare an look at you like your nobody, an make fun of you when you walk by. I myself have never had that done that I know of but I have seen it done. An when guys look at pictures of plus size models an state how big they are an shouldn't do things like that cause they're so fat. First off that's rude, an if they don't like it, why are they looking at it in the first place. People shouldn't judge.
Some people say they are okay with being thick, but are they really? I used to wonder why people made fun of themselves being big.. now I think I know why cause I now am one of them people. I do it because I don't want others doing it. So if I feel like someone is staring, or just look at what I have on a, I would be like "Yeah I'm not wearing this again I look like a moo cow lol." But really I'm like I like this, an think I look good in it, but do I really?
Being big to me is not really that beautiful underneath. If you know how to wear your clothes to make u look slim an not let it hang out then to me your gonna look good. But its hard to make yourself something that your not. I have been eating healthy an less portions when I eat an exercise. I want to get smaller an lose some weight, its hard but I'm really wanting to so I'll feel better about myself
If you really want to do something, just put your mind to it an achieve your goal.
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Friday, March 16, 2012
* Weight *
Next week we will talk about Over Weight.
Seems to be a big topic right now in the world, so lets talk.
Seems to be a big topic right now in the world, so lets talk.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
Relationships Good & Bad
Every relationship starts off the same. Its great! You get the nervousness, shyness, giggles, smiles, butterflies, an always getting the complements. I just wonder why it don't stay that way...
Once your in the relationship for a few months you start to see the real person come out, sometimes sooner. We all know that all that nice guy at the beginning don't stay forever. The more we spend time together it just shows us how we really are. We move in with each other an then a few months we start to aggravate each other, wondering where they're going, when they'll be back etc. Us girls love to be with our man almost seems like 24/7. If your man wants to go out with their friends, we want to go too. If you want to stay home and watch movies you want your man there with you, an when us girls cook we want to show that we make good meals for our man.and to make them feel special, we dress up to look good and so you'll complement us like you did in the beginning. The guys are like the girls, they want to know they look good. It makes them feel good just like it does us. Cooking on the grill is their talent. As they say " MEN DO THE GRILLING AN WOMEN IN THE KITCHEN." Makes them feel in charge, to hear how good them did; Just like us girls.
Let talk about the Good things about our relationship..
We love the beginning for sure, that's when we feel amazing an things are great. We have an amazing boyfriend that turns into fiance, into husband who does an says all the right things, Its like we couldn't ask for nothing better. When the man buys you dinner, flowers, presents, everything you want, he's the man you want right? Not quite true, Yes we love all of that and want a man like that, but real woman don't really worry about that stuff just for her man to show that he loves her an shes the only one, all eyes on her, treats her like there's no other girl for him, says he loves her all the time, kisses her, hugs her, and makes her feel good. Guys want that to just don't show it like we do. So make sure you show then how u would want to be felt.
Bad things in are relationship...
Everyone argues an fights w/ each other, not everything is perfect. Some fights are over dumb things that are so little that shouldn't really be arguing about, but some peoples relationships change for the worst. It starts off the same as everyone else, the best thing in the world. You fall in love an nothing could change it, but then again you find out who they are an how they changed. Some become controlling or become controlled. Physical abuse is something you want to leave asap. Once it starts it only gets worse. The arguing get worse, then that can lead to pushing, slapping, spitting, punching, kicking, pulling hair, dragging, throwing, choking, locking people in rooms an even more, where it can lead to DEATH. Then its to late. I have a question for people who go through this, I hear it all the time I LOVE HIM/HER. How can you love to get beat? That's not love.. love has no physical pain, love is someone who would never lay their hand on you or allow anyone else to, to keep you safe from danger, an make you feel safe. Someone you can trust to be with, an not be scared! An if you have kids with that person, your kids should never see something like that.That should be your number one reason to leave. Your kids come first before any relationship. No matter if its you baby mamma/daddy. You gotta get away from that before something happens to you or your kids.
For people who go through this/ has; Please comment so someone can answer my questions and how love can be so blind an painful for others. Who ever wants to just comment please do so.
Once your in the relationship for a few months you start to see the real person come out, sometimes sooner. We all know that all that nice guy at the beginning don't stay forever. The more we spend time together it just shows us how we really are. We move in with each other an then a few months we start to aggravate each other, wondering where they're going, when they'll be back etc. Us girls love to be with our man almost seems like 24/7. If your man wants to go out with their friends, we want to go too. If you want to stay home and watch movies you want your man there with you, an when us girls cook we want to show that we make good meals for our man.and to make them feel special, we dress up to look good and so you'll complement us like you did in the beginning. The guys are like the girls, they want to know they look good. It makes them feel good just like it does us. Cooking on the grill is their talent. As they say " MEN DO THE GRILLING AN WOMEN IN THE KITCHEN." Makes them feel in charge, to hear how good them did; Just like us girls.
Let talk about the Good things about our relationship..
We love the beginning for sure, that's when we feel amazing an things are great. We have an amazing boyfriend that turns into fiance, into husband who does an says all the right things, Its like we couldn't ask for nothing better. When the man buys you dinner, flowers, presents, everything you want, he's the man you want right? Not quite true, Yes we love all of that and want a man like that, but real woman don't really worry about that stuff just for her man to show that he loves her an shes the only one, all eyes on her, treats her like there's no other girl for him, says he loves her all the time, kisses her, hugs her, and makes her feel good. Guys want that to just don't show it like we do. So make sure you show then how u would want to be felt.
Bad things in are relationship...
Everyone argues an fights w/ each other, not everything is perfect. Some fights are over dumb things that are so little that shouldn't really be arguing about, but some peoples relationships change for the worst. It starts off the same as everyone else, the best thing in the world. You fall in love an nothing could change it, but then again you find out who they are an how they changed. Some become controlling or become controlled. Physical abuse is something you want to leave asap. Once it starts it only gets worse. The arguing get worse, then that can lead to pushing, slapping, spitting, punching, kicking, pulling hair, dragging, throwing, choking, locking people in rooms an even more, where it can lead to DEATH. Then its to late. I have a question for people who go through this, I hear it all the time I LOVE HIM/HER. How can you love to get beat? That's not love.. love has no physical pain, love is someone who would never lay their hand on you or allow anyone else to, to keep you safe from danger, an make you feel safe. Someone you can trust to be with, an not be scared! An if you have kids with that person, your kids should never see something like that.That should be your number one reason to leave. Your kids come first before any relationship. No matter if its you baby mamma/daddy. You gotta get away from that before something happens to you or your kids.
For people who go through this/ has; Please comment so someone can answer my questions and how love can be so blind an painful for others. Who ever wants to just comment please do so.
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